This year has been a stellar year for blogging. Not only has blogging as a medium been embraced, but for some it’s become an important way of life. Not a day goes by where I don’t visit my favorite blogs.
If you think about it, blogging is an amazing media art form. We’ve see both the good and bad side of blogging. Some will take advantage, those who simply pat bloggers on the head, or treat them with disdain, going as far as to take a blogger’s idea and words they claim for their own and think nothing is wrong with it. A perfect example was the whole Cook’s Source controversy where one blogger decided they wouldn’t sit back and be taken advantage of. And because of the lengths and support of the blogging community, many things were brought into the light. Now Cooks Source is no more, and yet, the editor-in chief who blatantly plagiarized the blogger blames her for the magazine’s downfall. Or how another blogger’s photographs were stolen and placed with no byline or payment in a journal. Again that blogger made it point to tell her story publicly and got what she deserved. Bloggers came together to discuss Marie Claire’s Fat Bigotry blog post, as well as what may be the biggest Amazon controversy of the year with the self-published Pedophilia guide. And many stood up and took notice all because of the blogs.
Now more than ever bloggers are being courted and held up to a higher standard. I see this mainly in the publishing world (because I'm so involved in it) from all ends by the publishers and authors who hope a blogger will mention or review a book and the author writing it.
I see how one blogger, who only three years ago, just by posting pictures of celebrities has become a cultural phenomenon. Love him or hate him, Perez Hilton is a blogging role model who has done the impossible where his website, his blog he started from scratch, gets close to 14 million viewers in a month and makes $50,000 a day in ads. Boggles the mind doesn’t it?
There are many other examples of bloggers out there who are making a name for themselves. The competition has become fierce, and a bit frightening if you think about the lengths some people will go to in order to get more traffic for the soul purpose of being mentioned or linked. Perhaps a few are lucky enough to make money off their blog and treat it as a second job and market themselves, including their ideas and their names very well. One such blog (thanks to Smexybooks) I just discovered that is only a little over a year old is Hyperbole and a Half. Run by Allie, she has created an unique blog filled with her own drawings about her life and observations that has close to 60,000 followers. Allie’s latest post had over 2300 comments! Just take a look at Cake Wrecks, Regretsy, My Milk Toof, the list goes on and on. If you come to think of it, there are different levels to blogging and it’s entirely up to that blogger to decide which way they want to go. This is where one must decide if they treat blogging as a hobby or something more and run with it.
I once was told that in order to become something big, you have to have a gimmick. I used to think someone’s gimmick was more along the lines of a person extending their 15 minutes of fame. I’ve decided my words are my gimmick and more so now with the stories I’ve published and that I’m currently working on. The same goes in the posts I create. For some reason a nice amount of people visit here each day to read what I have to say. And that humbles me because half the time I think I make no sense or have no rhyme or reason for what I do.
Who would have thought a stuffed sheep from Bath and Body Works would have a following or the outlandish and shocking things I find on the internet for one of my most beloved weekly posts- my WTFckery, would be talked about and enjoyed by many.
Lately I’ve been undergoing a sense of blogger fatigue. Not that I’m ready to give up blogging yet by any means, but some days I just find that I don’t have the excitement like I used to. In part this has to do with the amount of hours in the day I’ve been working. Because I’m now more involved with my writing and trying to getting published, I’m consumed by writing the stories that are rolling around in my head. I also have to find a balance because I still have to work in the traditional sense. I literally start my day at six in the morning during the week where I’ll write before work, go to my day job and then come home and write some more. If you clock in my total number of hours I’m working between writing and my day job, I’m working almost 14 hour days. On the weekends I just write and write and write until my eyes go blind.
I used to be consumed this way with blogging. Now in the past few months, not so much. I still update in some form or another every day, but it’s become harder. Maybe I don’t need to update every day. What would be the worst thing that would happen if I didn’t? Actually some days, I wouldn’t mind just posting funny videos and leave it at that.
Blogging is still rewarding up to a point, and I’m not going to lie, but I dream of a day where I could become the next big blog like Perez Hilton. But then again, I have dreams of becoming the next big author. Can I continue to do both without going crazy?
I love to read and write. The written word excites me like no other. And I want to be one who continues to write words that will be read and hopefully reap the rewards from it.
Those who blog, how do you keep a balance? And to those bloggers who find themselves with their own kind of blogger fatigue, how do you get past it? Do you take a break or perhaps give up and move onto something else?
This picture cracked me up as well. Perhaps it's me next to my laptop and my notebook of story ideas?











18 comments:
Hey KB,
I know exactly how you feel. I sometimes feel that way to with my blog. I had many things that I had regularly scheduled to do each day of the week, and it was becoming more of a burden rather than fun like it started.
My solution was to take a step back and ask myself what would happen if I didn't do some of those things anymore....I stopped doing some of them, and the good thing was I felt more balanced. Not posting something because I felt I had to, but wanted to.
Readers of my blog haven't seemed to mind. When I do post, which is not everyday (though I wish I could) my readers take the time to read what I have to say. And also as a blog reader I'd much rather have fewer posts to read (because again there is only so much time in a day). I'd rather that when you do post that it be more of you, and not just a filler post to make sure you post everyday.
I know this doesn't really help so much, but if writing your stories is more of your passion right now, I think you should go with it, and have blogging take a backseat...not necessarily boot it out of the car alongside the road, just not as much of a priority. Don't worry we'll still be here waiting for you to post on the blog when you find the time, or the inclination to blog about something :)
Congrats on your writing success.
Blogging definitely ebbs and flows. My blog today is so completely different from my blog five years ago.
Adapting how you blog to how you're living and working now makes good sense. :)
I just kind of go with the flow. Right now I don't feel compelled to post daily, but I try not to go more than a couple of days, but even then, just a funny video or a few cookies lets people know I'm not dead yet. I don't want to be the next big thing, I have no clue how many people visit my blog (I think I signed up for something but I'm not sure LOL), ignorance is bliss. Maybe it's not one. That's okay, I started it only because when I joined a book challenge you needed a blog to keep track, I hoped no one would fine it. Ooops. LOL
Lots of my friends have taken breaks, some come back, some don't. Hope you find your blogging mojo while being able to continue to write.
Aloha, Katie! I have been following your blog since I met you at RomCon. I enjoy readnig your blog because you're edgy without being over the top!
I've only been blogging for 7 months and I feel that fatigue already (I get excited about an idea and find that I have overcommitted myself). So I have set a goal of only blogging M/W/F in the new year. It will be a challenge to say "no" to requests (and myself) but I have to clean my house once in a while. Otherwise the dust bunnies get as big as your Mho Flo!
Whatever you do, your readers will support you ... your blog or your books will still be entertaining!
I totally understand about blogging fatigue. There have been days where it seemed too close to being work rather than an enjoyment. For me, though, I think it has more to do with time.
I know for me, my life hogs a lot of my time; but my life is revolving around two little boys right now. Because of this, there's no real way to balance blogging and them. So I take what time I can and try to make the best of it. I don't stress about having something on the site every day. Once you do that, all the joy gets sucked out. But, I do have a schedule - certain things that get posted on certain days - and that seems to help.
I am gonna make this one a short one and say that I love your WTF posts :D
If you feel fatigue then yes a break could be in order, so you don't give up on us altogether
Great post, Kate. I would be worried about you if, despite starting a new job and having a newly thriving writing career, you had exactly the same amount of energy, enthusiasm and time for blogging. You are human, with a finite amount of energy, and so when you give more to work and writing, you have less for blogging. We often think "excitement" or "motivation" is something totally different from "time" or "energy", but the fact is, when you have less time or energy, that affects your motivation and enthusiasm, too.
I know things are a bit different for you, because your blog is part of your "brand" as an author, but I make sure I have no commitments to blogging. I try to do the Monday post every week, but can't even manage that. If I ever feel bad, I remind myself that blogging is wonderful, but no where near the top of my list of what matters. It takes the pressure off. Perhaps even more important, is the reminder that few people would care, or care much, or care for long, if I closed up shop today and never blogged again. So try to take the pressure off yourself, and just do what you want to do. We'll be here reading in any case.
I feel your pain KB. It's been incredibly difficult for me to find time to blog this year, since I've been researching and writing my first book. It's one of the reasons that I've done more book and film reviewing. Now that the book is coming out and I have book proposals to do for the next book, I don't know when I'll find the time but I try to post at least one or two new profiles of women a month.
I've been surprised with how you've been keeping up with your blog, considering how many books you've been publishing lately! I can totally understand why you'd feel burned out and wouldn't want to blog as much.
I so feel you on the blogger fatigue. I've cut back considerably because I hate posting something that doesn't excite me.
PS $50K for Perez Hilton ---> OMG.
There was no balance for me. At least, none that I could find. Which is why I cut back tremendously and closed my original blog.
A year ago things were a bit different. I worked part time and was able to post and visit all the blogs I loved, on top of reading and trying to write. But now I work 45+ hours a week, on top of still having the family and a house to maintain.
I used to feel terrible if I didn't visit everyone. But, there comes a point where you realize that the 10 blogs you used to follow quickly became 200, lol. You can easily get burnt out.
I now have myself in a mindset that I will only post when I can. I will visit blogs I love when I can.
Basically it's become a "when I can" type deal, lol. But I'm happy with it. I hope you can find your balance Katie ;) Try not to burn yourself out and good luck with your writing.
Hmmm. Your day sounds packed...where is your down time? You know, to relax?
Balancing life online and offline isn't easy...and it's something I have to readdress every day. For me, I aim for 10 posts a month - not brilliant, but...I try and make those posts I write as interesting and informative as possible. *shrug* I guess everyone has to find what is right for them...because what is right for one isn't right for another, and things can change in a split second.
That so totally wasn't any help, was it? For what it's worth, I do hope you keep blogging, even if it is in a more limited capacity than it has been as I like visiting :)
Booklover: I really do think I need to take a step back because some of my priorities have changed. We'll see what happens.
Chris: I'm trying to adapt :) and you blog always makes me smile.
Tam: Posting everyday is exhausting unless I just post LOL kitten videos. Maybe more WTFckery?
Kim: Aw you are just too sweet! I try to be as entertaining as I can be.
Jackie: I try to stick to a schedule and it does seem to help.
Blodeuedd: How about WTFckery all the time? ;)
Jessica: My week doesn't begin until you post your Monday Step Backs. Hm, never thought of me having a brand. I like that!
Elizabeth: I think it comes down to what's more important and for both of us, getting published is.
Heidenkind: I'm wiped out. ZZZ
Smokinhot: I know, $50k. *sob*
Barbara: It's definitely all about balance. When I can is a good motto.
RRRJess, I would care if you stopped blogging!! And I would care if Babs and plenty of my other fave blogs stopped. :(
It's probably obvious, but I've been going through the same type of thing, blogging fatigue. Well, Life Fatigue. Like Jackie, my days revolve mainly around my kidlet, and with her being in kindergarten now it's harder to justify the time to blog. Plus the little scamp just loves being on my computer, and I can always be doing something else, so I usually just let her play or do her school educational site games.
BUT - I just bought her a netbook for Christmas! Woohoo! So maybe now I can get some work done lol!
But yeah, things can really feel overwhelming at times, and it can get hard to find that time to blog. We tend to give up the things that we do for us, the things we enjoy and have fun with, as opposed to cutting corners when it comes to family, job, etc. It just seems to be how a lot of us are wired.
Right now I'm just riting a post a week if I can, more if possible, and finally accepting, I think, that it's OK if that's how it is for a while.
I haven't blogged in months and I don't see myself doing it anytime soon. I haven't read either. I'm tired and I can't work full-time and go to school full-time and still have the responsibility of blogging and reviewing. I miss it but it's best for me take a break.
Not gonna lie KB, I'm exhausted 99% of the time. I started my blog a couple of months before getting pregnant with my 2nd child. For medical reasons I'd had to put baby #2 off until baby #1 was 9-years-old and with #1 being older I had a lot of time for reading/blogging/playing video games while he was at school. It was never enough but I actually felt like I was hitting my stride.
Then I got really sick with all-day morning sickness, had a death in the family, was in a car accident where my neck was injured and was diagnosed with gestational diabetes. There were a lot of other things too but I was so tired all the time. Then the baby came and she has never slept for more than 6 hours straight and that was a one-time deal. Even at 1yr+ she wakes me up consistently at 4 different times of the night.
Finding time to read and review is tough and some days I just end up sayign way too much about my personal life when I mean to be writing a post about what I'm currently reading or looking forward to being released. Meanwhile my husband reread the Night Huntress series over the weekend and I haven't even had time to crack the 1st book. Then he whines at me because I prioritize other reading (ARCs, promised reviews) over the ones he wants me to read.
Anyway there I go ranting over my own mess. Sorry! :(
I definitely have days I have no energy or motivation to review or blog. Others I have tons of motivation but no time. It's frustrating and I can relate to how you're feeling. I would love to be sucessful in the blogosphere. I trust blogger opinions about stuff generally because they are independant. No ones pays us for the work we do unless we're ad-supported which often has no influence over our opinions. I like that.
I think your blog is an excellent example of what a book blog can be when someone is devoted. I really enjoy your snark and observations. I often think "OMG how does she have the time for this every day!?!?!?!" but I can honestly say I wouldn't notice if you wrote every day or only twice a week. I only have time to look over my blogroll a couple of times a week and then I play catch-up. Even though I should be writing for my own blog I feel like it's important to comment on things other bloggers are writing. How is a blogger supposed to feel like it's worth it if they never get any feedback? (That's where I'm at lately—why am I exhausting myself when NO ONE visits my blog?)
I can't give any advice really KB 'cause I am not as sucessful as you by any means, if I stopped blogging no one would notice. ;) lol BUT I think you're wise to have asked. Follow your gut and know at the very least *I* will keep reading what you have to say even if it's your once a week post of randomness. You have a great voice and make people feel comfortable. *hugs* Good luck!
Rhianna: How do you do it all? Compared to me you are a rockstar! I bow down to mothers because I couldn't do half of what you do.
Right now I'm taking one day at a time and seeing where it goes.
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