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Friday, November 19, 2010

Author Guest Post: Kieran Kramer and the Power of Love

The first time I heard of Kieran Kramer is when she went out of her way to send me an email. Since then we've chatted back and forth and when I was sent her historical romance debut, When Harry Met Molly, I was very happy to give it a read. When Harry Met Molly left me with a big smile on my face because it's so cute! The epilogue alone had me in stitches and the hero Harry is this great beta/alpha combination as well as Molly who is endearingly sweet and innocent, but not where I wanted to smack her. And yes, there's hot sex . (Cheers for tent scene)

When Kieran asked if I would be interested in being a part of her blog crawl, as I like to call it, I said yes.

This may bring a tear to your eye...

I'm in the mood to tell a kinda more serious story for Katie's blog. I'm thrilled to have been on so many websites answering interview questions since When Harry Met Molly came out, but I want to try something new. I usually follow my instincts, which means that when ideas pop into my head, I can't shake them easily. I trail after them like a dog following crumbs. And today, this came to me: I believe the people who are the most colorful and opinionated are often the ones with the biggest hearts--and so I want to honor the bravery and empathy I sense in Katie. I'll do my best to by being a little more introspective on her blog--less "author face" and more "Kieran heart."

When people ask me why I became a romance writer, I give them the short answer: because I like to read. But I leave out an important part of the "why": my growing up years. My dad was a colonel in the Air Force--a pilot--and out of the blue when I was eleven, he retired early and moved us out to a remote property on a rural sea island near Charleston, SC. This was Pat Conroy country--saltwater creeks, lots of marsh grass, huge oaks with hanging moss. No neighbors you could see. They were there, but the quickest way to get to them was to float down the creek on your back and climb up their docks. Dad decided he was going to clear the land and build our house himself. While he was doing this (with our help), we would live in an ancient mobile home with two small camper trailers sitting next to it. The campers, one of which I shared with my two sisters, were connected by a wooden sidewalk Dad built.

We were going to have the Walton experience.

And the funny thing was, we were a kind of Walton family--seven kids born in nine years to two very loving, fun parents with high standards when it came to character. My mother, being 100% Irish, was kind of crazy and dramatic. Dad was the stoic, of English ancestry and with his military self-discipline always in the background.

By age 12, I'd used a machete to cut through thick vines and had learned to drive a tractor. We had giant bonfires to burn all the brush we'd cleared, so before Dad lit them, we'd cover ourselves with thick pluff mud from the creek and dance around the bonfire. We had free-roaming chickens and a rooster named Phred, who would chase you and try to sink his spurs into your calf. We had two mean geese and a crazy mule and a goat that jumped on people's cars and pooped on the hoods; we had a horse named Ozzie who broke loose from the pasture one day, and when I opened my little camper trailer door one morning, Ozzie was standing there on the wooden sidewalk. He merely stretched his neck into my trailer in search of a carrot in my pajamas.

It was an adventurous but hard lifestyle for a burgeoning teen. I had a lot of time on my own to think about all the things I was missing in real neighborhoods. But I also had a lot of time to develop my imagination. I would sit on an empty dirt road next to the pasture or on the dock and think about life--including wondering about when I would fall in love.

It was sometimes hard on Mom and Dad, too. The six months we were supposed to be in the trailers turned into five years. Money was very tight. My siblings and I wore all hand-me-downs. Mom would, on rare occasion, get very upset with my dad that the house wasn't finished (they didn't take out a mortgage and were building it paycheck to paycheck). So occasionally, there was misery. Despondency. And a sense that our "adventure" had soured.

One night, under a full moon, a day or so after my mother had voiced her discontent about not being in the house yet, Dad ordered us kids to stay in the trailers and not come out. And then he invited Mom out to the beautiful, two-story log house, which was nearing the completion stage but still lacked a roof. He led her up the stairs and into the bathroom he'd built especially for her. Mom had never had her own bathroom.

Somehow that night, to surprise Mom, Dad had managed to fill the cast-iron tub with hot water. So Mom got to take a bath in her new tub--under the moonlight!--while we kids huddled in the trailer and wondered what was going on out there. When Mom came back in, we immediately sensed that things were all right again. We'd make it into that house someday, was the feeling we all shared. We'd do it together.

And we did.

I think it's stories like that that helped make me a romance writer. I do believe in the power of love to get you through the rough patches in life. I believe it because I've lived it.

Now I have a copy of When Harry Met Molly and an ARC of Dukes to the Left of Me/Princes to the Right to give away.

Thanks for stopping by, and Happy Thanksgiving!

Hugs,

Kieran

For your chance to win these two books, one that isn't even out yet, leave a comment here for Kieran by Friday November 26th. Do you have your own experience to talke about where the power of love helped you get through the day? Or how about the love of family and friends being there when times get tough?

This is open for everyone to enter!

When Harry Met Molly is now available... (and a USA Today best seller)


He’s always been a player.

Dashing Lord Harry Traemore is perfectly content to live out his days in the pursuit of pleasure. But when he’s named by the Prince Regent as one of society’s “Impossible Bachelors,” Harry is drafted into a ribald romantic wager. The rules of engagement are scandalously simple: The bachelor whose mistress wins the title of “Most Delectable Companion” gets to remain unmarried. Harry is utterly unconcerned about his status…until his latest lightskirt abandons him.

Who will win this game of love?

Enter Lady Molly Fairbanks. Harry’s childhood friend—actually, “foe” is more like it—is the most unlikely companion of all. She’s attractive but hot-headed, and in no mood for games. Besides, what could the self-indulgent Harry possibly know about what makes a woman delectable? It’s time for Molly to teach him a lesson once and for all…but will it lead to “happily ever after?”

And coming November 30th...


Their engagement was a fake.

Most women would not be pleased to be labeled a spinster. But Lady Poppy Smith-Barnes isn’t most women. In fact, Poppy has invented an imaginary fiancĂ©, the Duke of Drummond, to deter unwanted suitors. A very useful fellow, this duke, until the real Drummond turns up and uses Poppy’s ploy to trap her in a betrothal.

Will their passion make it real?

A good spy flies below the radar. Which is why being named one of the Prince Regent’s “Impossible Bachelors” is so inconvenient for Nicholas Staunton. Every society female will be out to ensnare him. Nicholas needs a fiancĂ©e—and Poppy’s ruse is the answer. How could he have known she’d be a brazen, sensual siren with an irresistible taste for adventure? Now nothing less will do than to convince his fiery Poppy to revoke her spinster status…for good.

28 comments:

Kieran Kramer said...

Katie,

I'm going on a Harry Potter roadtrip this morning in my cool white minivan (windows down and Madonna & the B-52's cranked up) to pick up some faraway friends who HAVE to see the movie tonight at the IMAX theater and need me to pick them up so they can look cool in my white minivan with the 80s music, too.

So I'll be not around for a couple hours, but thanks for having me on your blog today!!! I hope someone else will share his or her sentimental/wacky childhood story or just stop by and give us a virtual high-five for all of us making it through the week! TGIF!!

Kieran :>)

Amanda said...

Katie & Kiernan,
I had a pretty boring childhood compared to your adventures. But, my husband did something similar for me during our bathroom remodel--he cleaned out the new tub, ran water from the sink, and I had the first bath in the new tub. Though our floor plan doesn't allow for me to have a private bathroom, it was pretty sweet to be the first one in!

Leah Marie Brown said...

I met Kieran several years ago and was immediately impressed by her candor, humility, determination, and heart. I am so thrilled by her success.

I know many authors but there is a select group (Elle Jasper, Cindy Miles, Virginia Farmer, Catherine Mann, Renee Ryan) who combine great talent with great character. Kieran is one of those select few.

When Harry Met Molly is a fantastic romance novel, written by a fantastic woman.

Thanks for running this interview, Babbling. I hope to see more interviews with other talented, good-hearted authors!

VanessaD said...

I loved reading about your childhood. Unfortunately the women in my family tend to pick jerks so there aren't any romantic love stories like yours but it is the biggest reason why I love romance novels. You see, even though I've never seen in my family or experienced a love like that I still have hope that I will one day. Romance novels helped me through the really rough times of my horrible relationship with my ex-husband and they help keep me hopeful that one day I will meet a man who will love me so much that he'd fill a bath tub in an unfinished house so I can bathe under the moon.

Katiebabs/ KB said...

I'd be fine with finding a man who would clean my bathroom for me. A man who's willing to scrub a toilet is a keeper.

Susan said...

What a wonderful story! Neither my father nor my husband are "big gesture" type guys but they both know the power of the small things: filling up the gas tank, cleaning the shower, pouring a glass of wine, etc. I am thankful everyday for my parents 50+ year marriage and I hope with that example we can do it, too!

Blodeuedd said...

This author is sure on my radar now, those two books just look fun

Power of love, nah, can't say I have a story like that :( Though speaking of scrubbing toilets, I am happy to say my man is up for that

Abbie said...

I LOVE that story! My hubby isn't one for grand gestures either, but he is doing something special for our anniversary this year. It's been a rough few months for us as a family and as a couple, so to cheer me up he's taking me to see Michael Buble. I know that doesn't sound like much, but for a man who listens to 80's hair bands and country music, that's a big deal! Plus, he planned out a whole overnight getaway to go with it, and has secretly been setting aside money for months, so I wouldn't know. (I handle the checkbook, so it would have been hard to keep a big expense like this a secret otherwise) He's not usually romantic in the big ways, but he's very good at making me feel loved.

Melanie said...

WOW! You sure made me tear up! Thanks for being "Kieran heart."

Its stories like you just told us that make our "authors" become our friends. It makes you real and not just a name off a book. I have purchased your book, and last night it went off of my TBR into Currently Reading!

You know that line from Jerry McGuire "You had me at Hello..."? Kieran you had me at "A Love Rectangle of Tragic Proportions"!!!

I believe that all of us go through tough moments sooner or later. Mine came at my mother’s passing. She battled Breast Cancer for five long years and her last year was very hard on me as my husband of 18 years decided he wanted a divorce. I was devastated. My saving grace was my children and my work. Both of them were in High School at the time, so they understood the pain and sorrow that filled my heart and their support was everything to me. As for my work, there was this young man, knowing what I was going through, who made it a point EVERY DAY to tell me jokes from Rodney Dangerfield, Jay Leno and David Letterman. Much later I found out that he stayed late at night watching television or reading joke books, memorizing the jokes just to tell them to me so I could laugh. I got to know him so well, that I tried to “hook” him up with my young cousins, and I do have many very pretty ones. Never, EVER did it occur to me that this young man would one day come to me and say: “My friend Liz thinks that I’m in love with you, and I think she might be right…?” What is a woman to do after such a declaration, but look at him and go “WHAT”!!!! At the time we’ve known each other for quite some time and after all my attempts to “hook” him up with my cousins, he said he wanted to take me out. Well, we have been inseparable now for 15 years and 10 of those married.

Love will find us when least we expect it and it will get us through our darkest moments. All we need do, is believe.

I'm looking forward to reading your work and wish you happines in all you do.

Melanie Friedman

http://bookworm2bookworm.wordpress.com/

Barbara E. said...

Hi Kieran, I enjoyed your story very much. It sounds like some hard times with a very loving family. I too had a fairly hard upbringing, with my parents splitting when I was 12. Things weren't always easy, but with my mother, sisters and brother, we always made it through. Twenty years later, my mother and father remarried, what a strange day that was, to have them back together again. They remained together until my mother's death.

I think When Harry Met Molly sounds like a wonderful book, and from what I've seen Dukes to the Left of Me, Princes to the Right sounds fabulous as well. I'm looking forward to reading them both.

Barbed1951(at)aol(dot)com

LSUReader said...

Hubby and I have been through a lot of substantial, difficult situations with our kids--the kinds of situations that are impossible to emotionally survive if you don’t believe in unconditional love. I enjoyed Kieran’s story. Thanks for sharing.
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Kieran Kramer said...

Wow, I'm tearing up just reading these posts. I finished the first half of the roadtrip and am waiting to start the second half. Sitting at Starbucks for the moment.

Leah, you are a girl of my heart!! I always felt a connection with you and wish we'd only lived near each other longer!! Thank you for all the lovely things you said.

Amber, you're lucky! That's awesome you have your own "guy filling you a bath" story.

VanessaD, keep that hope and optimistic attitude with you always. I'm so glad romance novels have helped you through hard times. I truly believe that what you believe comes back to you, so stay strong and happy now--weather those setbacks when they come-- and I know you'll be happy in the future!

Susan, I know what you mean about the small gestures. My husband can't build a house, but he does little things for me all the time. He makes sure I have decaf tea bags when I go on trips. Folds laundry. Stuff like that.

Blodeuedd, thanks for looking out for my books!

Abbie, what a sweet story!! I hope you and your husband have an absolutely fabulous time seeing Michael Buble!!

Melanie, I LOVE your romantic story! HOw amazing!! Thanks so much for sharing with us.

BarbaraE...your parents must have really loved each other a lot to remarry like that. Wow! Thanks for sharing that story, too.

Thanks to ALL of you--your comments have just made my day. I think the thing we all have to remember, no matter where we are in our relationships, is that we have to love ourselves ALWAYS.

I wish I didn't have to sign off right now, but i have to hop in the cool white minivan again and head back home. I'll check in with you, Katie, a couple hours from now.

Hugs to all!

Kieran :>)

ClaudiGC said...

I don't really have to share a story about the power of love but the sweetest thing my husband did for me was getting me tickets for a concert by Robbie Williams (which you in the US won't know ;-), never mind). He surprised me with them on that very day and had everything arranged, from asking my boss for a day off to getting a hotel room for the night to stay. And he doesn't even like the music!

Kieran, your books sound really lovely, I have to check them out!

Katie, I love your blog! I have been a lurker for ages. :-)

Kim in Hawaii said...

Aloha, Kieran! Once again, you just blow me away - I did not realize you were an AF brat, too!

Thanks for sharing a moment in your parents' romance - very inspiring!

If readers enjoyed this interview, go read Kieran's bio on her website - you'll chuckle all weekend at the "life experiences" that Kieran has to influence her writing. I hope a future book will have Richard Dawson-esqe character kissing the ladies, including the Nanny!

BethP said...

I just finished "When Harry Met Molly" this morning and can't wait for Amazon to ship "Dukes to the Left."

What a great story about your Walton experience!

Jane said...
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Jane said...

Hi Kieran,
Congrats on the upcoming release. I don't have any romantic stories to share, but I have relied on the love of family and friends to get through the tough times especially when I got sick. It's always nice to know that they care and will always be by your side in a time of need.

Johanna R Jochum said...

I my goodness what a wondderful post! I actually cried! Such a sweet story. I don't have any good stories like that but I'm a romantic and love hearing them!
Thanks for sharing today! I will be reading this bookL! I hear it is amazing!

evjochum@aol.com

chey said...

What a nice story! Makes my childhood seem pretty boring!
chey127 at hotamail dot com

Heather said...

I have been a reader my whole life and when I was 14 I discovered romance books, there was just something about a guy and girl having to overcome something to be with each other and get that hea.

More than 20 years later I still love romance books and have found my hero. No he isn't perfect in fact he is very much flawed but I know that I am his world and he is mine.

Kieran Kramer said...

Good Saturday morning, everyone! Last night I had less time than I thought--got home from the road trip and everyone immediately wanted to go into town, eat, and then go see Deathly Hallows at the IMAX theater. It was amazing, of course!

So this morning, I wake up and get to read all these wonderful new emails.

Claudia, I know who Robbie Williams is! I lived in Scotland for a year--it's amazing how he's so little known in the US--he's a legend over there! And your husband was so thoughtful to get you tickets! I hope it was amazing!!

Kim, you're my "old" friend now! I love seeing your name pop up on the internet. I feel we share a special bond: we both love our military heroes and heroines. Thanks for being such a tremendous support to me! XOXO

Beth, Thank you so much for reading my books and visiting me here. I hope you enjoy Dukes/Princes!! Let me know--check in at my Facebook page. I'd love to hear from you!

Jane, I agree that family and friends are everything!! Thank goodness for them. That's why I like Thanksgiving Day so much--because we're together, as many of as can get together, that is. And one thing my family always takes a moment around the table to think about are the people who are alone that day, such as elderly people with no support, lonely people who for reasons beyond their control just can't find a place to go, and our soldiers and sailors overseas. I've never worked at a soup kitchen on Thanksgiving morning, and I really should. I should do way more to show how grateful I am to have family and friends. Do any of you do something selfless around the holidays, like volunteering somewhere?

Johanna, Thank you so much--I'm thrilled you liked the book!

Chey, Thank you for reading and liking the story, and I'm sure your childhood wasn't boring at all! We all have our own quirky memories. If you think of one, share it with me on Facebook!

Heather, you expressed a lovely sentiment and I'm happy for you that you have your own hero!!

All, it was great to see you here, and thanks so much to Katie for hosting me! I look forward to giving away those books, and in the future, if you'd like to chat, please come see me at www.facebook.com/KieranKramer or visit my website page, which is www.kierankramerbooks.com. I'm also on Twitter.

Take care, everyone--have a wonderful Thanksgiving!

Love, Kieran :>)

mbreakfield said...

After I was diagnosed with RA and had to go on disablity, I don't know what I would have done without the love and support of my family.
marlenebreakfield(at)yahoo(dot)com

Jessica said...

My friends and family get me through every day :)

thejoyofthejoyofcooking at hotmail dot com

VanessaD said...

oops didn't realize I had to leave my email addy..

ladiie_vee@yahoo.com

Kaetrin said...

Hubby gave me a series of vouchers for a birthday a while back - they had no expiration date and can be used multiple times - they include child free hours and some, ahem, personal attention.

Good luck with your books Kieran - they sound great and I'm looking forward to reading them.

JenM said...

My story about the power of love is about my mom. My mom developed lung cancer and I'd been trying to visit her every few weeks during her treatment (she lived far away from me). She suddenly took an extreme turn for the worse and I got a frantic email from my stepdad that she might not last the night. I immediately jumped on a plane. When I got to the hospital, she was unconscious, but I took her hand and told her I was there. About 3 hours later, she woke up and recognized me. The doctors and nurses were shocked because her condition had been so bad. She pulled herself together and I was able to spend the weekend with her. Unfortunately, that took her final bit of strength and she passed away the following week, but I know that she came back to us that night solely because she knew that I hadn't had a chance to say goodbye to her. It was the greatest gift I've ever received.
jen(at)delux(dot)com

Angela Johnson said...

Oh my gosh, All these true examples of love are making me tear up.

Kiernan, I loved your quirky family stories. Your life sounds a little like Swiss Family Robinson, without the shipwrecked on the island part. I've heard a lot about your debut. I cant wait to read it.

When I was 22, I broke my neck in a car accident, injuring my spinal cord, and making me a quadriplegic. At the time I'd been dating Joe for a year and a half. He did not even for one second think of leaving me. True love stands the test of time, no matter what. Life has been tough, but we're still amazingly happy 23 years later.

I've been reading romance since my teens, and writing is my passion. I'd love to win your book.

angela(at)angelajohnsonauthor(dot)com

Katiebabs/ KB said...

The winner is Chey! Please email me your mailing address at katiebabsgATGmailDOTcom for your prize.